
Methods to confirm the distance between cars while driving: 1. When the car's reflection occupies the entire rearview mirror, the distance is 3 meters; 2. When the car's reflection occupies two-thirds of the rearview mirror, the distance is 5 meters; 3. When the car's reflection occupies half of the rearview mirror, the distance is 9 meters; 4. When the car's reflection occupies one-third of the rearview mirror, the distance is 12 meters. A safe distance refers to the necessary gap maintained by the following vehicle to avoid accidental collisions with the vehicle ahead while driving. The distance between your car and the vehicle ahead can be estimated by observing the position of the rear bumper and tires of the front car through the front contour line of your vehicle. When you see the upper edge of the rear bumper of the front car, the distance is 1 meter; when you see the lower edge of the rear bumper of the front car, the distance is 2 meters; when you see the lower edge of the rear tires of the front car, the distance is 3 meters.

When I first started driving, the most frustrating part was judging the distance between cars—I had a terrible sense of spacing. My instructor taught me the practical '3-second rule': pick a fixed point, like a streetlight or road sign, and start counting 'one, two, three' after the car ahead passes it. If I haven’t reached that point by the time I finish counting, I’m at a safe distance; if I pass it before three seconds, I’m too close and need to slow down to adjust. On highways, I double that time to account for unexpected situations since higher speeds increase risks. On rainy days when roads are slippery, I extend the distance further because braking distance increases. At traffic lights, I make sure I can see the entire bumper or rear wheels of the car in front to maintain a buffer space. Once I developed this habit, driving became much easier, and it helps prevent rear-end collisions—just takes practice!

As a seasoned driver, I mainly rely on experience and intuition to gauge the distance between vehicles. I observe the overall position of the car in front—if it occupies most of the rearview mirror or only a sliver of the road is visible behind it, that’s definitely too close, and I immediately slow down. On highways, I stick to the 3-second rule for safety, while in congested city traffic, I shorten it to 2 seconds. In poor weather conditions like heavy fog, I depend on road markings or nearby buildings to estimate distance. Never underestimate the importance of maintaining a safe following distance—it’s not just a safety net but also helps me anticipate traffic flow and avoid sudden surprises. Staying aware of the position of vehicles behind me is also crucial, ensuring I’m not being tailgated. With decades of driving under my belt, I’ve rarely had accidents and maintain a calm mindset on the road.

I like to use technology to assist in confirming the distance between vehicles. My car is equipped with a reversing radar and camera, which accurately display the distance in centimeters on the screen when parking, making it convenient and reliable. Modern models also come with collision warning systems that light up the dashboard or vibrate to alert me when I'm too close, automatically adjusting the distance. For daily driving, I use the speed and distance data displayed on the APP or dashboard, combined with looking around: judging the distance by the clarity of the license plate in front. Utilizing these tools more, along with habitual scanning of the surroundings, provides double insurance for more efficient and safer driving.

When picking up and dropping off kids at school, I pay extra attention to confirming the distance between cars. I make sure I can see the entire rear window and the bottom of the bumper of the car in front, leaving enough space to react, as I'm more cautious about safety buffers when carrying children. When stopping, I leave about one car length of space, extending the distance on rainy days to prevent slippery accidents. I also make it a habit to check the distance around me before changing lanes, using turn signals to alert others in advance. Safety comes first—don't risk getting too close just to save time. Once you develop these habits, family trips will be worry-free.


