The most reliable way to stop iTunes (or the Apple Music app) from automatically playing when you connect your phone to your car is to disable the auto-play feature within the CarPlay settings on your iPhone. This is a common frustration caused by the "Auto-Launch" function, which can be turned off regardless of your car's make or model.
Here’s a step-by-step guide:
- Open the Settings app on your iPhone.
- Scroll down and tap on General.
- Select CarPlay.
- Tap on your car's name from the list of available cars.
- Choose Customize.
- At the top of the screen, you will see the "AUTO-LAUNCH" section. Toggle the switch for Auto-Launch Audio App to the off (gray) position.
Once this is disabled, your iPhone will no longer automatically open your music app and start playing when it connects to your car's system. You will maintain full manual control, allowing you to choose your preferred audio source—be it a podcast, audiobook, or simply silence—when you start your drive.
If you don't use CarPlay and connect via standard Bluetooth, the behavior can be trickier to control as it often depends on your car's infotainment system. In this case, try this sequence: before turning off your car, manually switch the audio source to something else (like FM radio) or fully pause and close the music app on your phone. Many systems will default to the last-used audio source upon the next startup. If the problem persists, consult your vehicle's owner's manual for specific instructions on managing Bluetooth audio settings.
