
If you don't need to reverse when starting, it's better to use N gear because when starting the engine in P (Park) gear, the gear lever has to pass through R (Reverse) gear. Although the brake pedal is pressed, the automatic transmission still undergoes a disengagement and engagement of the gear, increasing wear. Automatic transmission driving method: 1. Gear lever position: When the gear lever is in P (or N) gear and the key is turned to start the car, you must press the brake pedal when shifting to D (Drive) or R (Reverse) gear; otherwise, it won't move. 2. Gear shifting: After the gear is shifted to the desired position, release the brake pedal; the vehicle will start moving forward (or backward), then you can start accelerating. To stop, simply press the brake pedal; the vehicle will come to a halt. 3. When waiting at a red light or stopping for a short time: Keep the gear in D and press the brake pedal; if the stop is slightly longer, more than 2 minutes, it's best to shift to N gear, release the brake pedal, and use the handbrake to park.

Last time I drove my friend's ML350, I also looked into this. For models after 2007, it's quite simple: after starting the car with the brake pedal pressed, push the gear lever on the center console forward from the D position and release—it will automatically return, and the instrument panel will display N. Note that you must press the brake to operate it, otherwise it won't move. For older ML models before 2005, the gear is behind the steering wheel like a wiper stalk, and the method is different—after starting, you need to pull the electronic gear lever downward and hold it for about 3 seconds. Shifting to N is mainly needed for towing or car washing, but never shift to neutral while driving, as it can severely damage the transmission. Also, a reminder: if the P/D button gets stuck and makes shifting difficult, you should first press the unlock button on the side of the gear lever for emergency operation.

As a repair shop owner, I often encounter owners asking about this. Key points to note are the model year: For post-2007 models with column shifters in the center console, start the car, press the brake pedal, push the entire gear lever forward firmly for 1 second until the dashboard displays 'N'. For pre-2005 older models with a stalk on the right side of the steering wheel, press the brake and hold the stalk downward until prompted. Remember that the electronic parking brake automatically locks the wheels when in neutral - you'll need to manually release it if moving the car. A little-known fact: Forcing the transmission into neutral before the Mercedes gearbox completely stops will trigger a protection program, requiring an engine restart to reset.

As a female car owner, I'd like to share some practical tips. Putting my 2014 ML350 into neutral is actually quite simple: after coming to a complete stop and keeping the brake pedal depressed, gently push the silver gear lever on the center console forward with your right hand - no need for excessive force, just until you feel a 'click'. You'll know it's done right when the 'N' gear indicator lights up on the instrument panel. Car wash attendants often make mistakes with this, so remember to always engage the parking brake when in neutral on slopes, otherwise the vehicle may roll dangerously. Mercedes' design is slightly more complicated than Japanese cars in this regard, but it becomes intuitive after a few tries. Just remember the engine must be running for this operation.

After a decade of repairing Mercedes, here are some practical tips. Before shifting to N (Neutral), confirm two things: first, the dashboard lights up indicating the car is on, and second, the brake pedal is fully depressed. Hold the metal button on top of the gear lever with your right hand and push it forward as a whole, like operating a game controller, with moderate force. Older models have a pitfall—the transmission may lock if the car isn't completely stationary. If you can't push it, don't force it. Reapply the brake, shift to P (Park), and try again. Be especially cautious during the rainy season—I've seen drivers mistake the wiper lever for the gear lever. The safest method is to first press the ignition button without stepping on the brake to power up, then depress the brake and shift gears. This works 99% of the time.

Just learned a trick at the 4S shop to share with you. The key steps are just three: Press the brake pedal firmly→Hold the black unlock button on the side of the gear lever→Push the entire lever all the way forward. The new gear lever head has a small round button that needs to be pressed while pushing. If you need to keep the car in N gear for a long time while washing, it's best to operate with the auto start-stop turned off to prevent the engine from suddenly starting and startling people. Mercedes' column shifter system is quite delicate, remember to use the heel of your palm to push the lever for better ease, don't force it with your fingertips. If you encounter a situation where it's completely immovable, simply turn off the engine, wait a minute, and restart—this usually solves the problem.


