Sober curious person looking for sober friend to help me (san jose downtown)

I am sober curious person. I have been in and out of AA for many years sometimes being sober for 2 to 4 years. I just moved to San Jose and relapse after my friends death. I’m hoping to find somebody who lives near me who can help me get to meetings and be someone I can call too. I know I can do this. I just need some support.